Im seeing this girl whos a virgin and she wants to lose it with me. Can anyone suggest the best way to go about it to minimise pain and maximise pleasure? Apart from health issues, is it better to use a condom, lubricant wise, or is it less painful, less abrassive to do without? I intend to give her a lengthy foreplay and oral to ease any anxiety. Should i make her orgasm with oral first, then go into penetration, or should i leave the orgasm with the latter? Any more tips would be helpful. Thanks.
Here's the best tip you will get.
Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.
I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.
Her being as relaxed as possible and you taking things slowly will help. If in doubt more lube will help. Condom wise, she will probably be less worried if you wear one, even if she doesn't realise she's worrying.
